There is no role for such pain in sex- clearly she is NOT READY so please back off!! Ruk jao, whats the hurry! Why are you being so persistent? Let me tell you one thing- it is critical to win over the trust of a person before we start having sex- only then can they relax feel comfy… hope you get it! Please go through this link https://lovematters.in/en/resource/first-time-sex