Dear Ravi. Married women are married women. This might be a difficult equation to solve as an IT engineer in draughty gujurat. But hey, let's leave married women to their husbands? I can see how being noble might come in the middle of things and how shiny your armour must look every time you save this woman from the drudgery of a failed marriage. But no damsel is truely in distress till she has to choose between her drunk husband and that guy who gives her gifts while field-testing his missiles for a moon launch. My suggestion is get a new friend. Maybe a girl this time. But quit having sex with the maid. Don't put on your Shiney armour. Sheath your sword. Don't give Kamasutra more ad material. Take matters into your own hands if needs be. If all else fails. Write to penthouse. Noble natwarlal says : Help a maid in need. Not bed a maid in greed.