Auntyji

Do you have a question in mind that you're reluctant to ask? Love Matter's sexual expert Auntyji is here to answer all your questions.

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I fantasise about my wife’s friend while making out with her, is it ok?

Hi Auntyji, I fantasise about my sister-in-law or my wife's friends while having sex with her. I do not think sexually about them otherwise. Is this ok? Chaitanya, 29, Ujjain.

My fiancee had a bf earlier. Should I be worried?

My fiancee says she had kissed her ex-boyfriend. How do I know they didn't go the full way? I am stressed and unsure whether to carry on with this engagement.
Jacob, 28, Kerala.

My fiancee wants to make out before marriage, should we?

Hi Auntyji. I am about to get married and my fiancee is suggesting we start experimenting with love making to make sure it’s real fun on our honeymoon. Do you think it is a good idea? Kartik, 27, Chennai

I am stressed at work and my gf wants sex, help!

Hi Auntyji. I am very stressed these days because of problems at work and just can't get myself to think about sex. My girlfriend is unhappy as it has been weeks since we made out. What can I do? Ankit, 26, Mumbai

How can I get my wife to orgasm?

Hi Auntyji, I want my wife to climax/have an orgasm. What sex position should we follow?
Armaan, 25, Lucknow

I follow a girl every day, will she see my love?

Hi Auntyji, I really like this girl and want to make her my girlfriend. So I follow her wherever she goes, the whole day. Do you think she will see my dedication to her? Harish, 23, Delhi.

Is it ok for women to talk about sex?

Hi Auntyji, as a woman, don't you feel uncomfortable talking about sex? How and when did you make a start? Preet, 24, Jalandhar.

Daily harassment on the bus: What should I do?

Hi Aunty ji, I go to college in a bus and every now and then I get pinched, touched inappropriately or ogled at. I am fed up but don't know what to do. Please help! Neha, 19, Delhi.

Is moving in with my BF a good idea?

Hi Auntyji, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we are considering moving in together. Do you think it’s a good idea? Avani, 24, Lucknow.

Friend vs boyfriend. How do I get the balance right?

Hi Auntyji, I have just started dating and I really like this guy. But it leaves me with no time for my friends. How do I get the right balance? Pallavi,18, Managalore.

My gf wants to have sex, I don’t!

Hi Auntyji, my girlfriend wants us to have sex but I don’t feel ready – emotionally and physically. What should I do? Keshav, 23, Noida.

I have made out a bit with my bf, can we go the full way now?

Hi Auntyji, I am in Class X and my boyfriend is in class XI. We have made out a bit. Can we go the full way? Vinu, XYZ.